How to have AMAZING sex with your mate(s) as YHVH desires

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How To Have Amazing Sex With Your Mate(s) As YHVH Desires
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Shalom, my dear brothers and sisters in Messiah :). The Spirit of our heavenly Abba(Father) is laying a strong message on my heart to share with many of you. This topic matter is not generally discussed within spiritual assemblies, due to the level of embarrassment, shame and discomfort amongst the brethren. More often than not, it is "swept under the rug" as being "taboo" or "improper", "not being fit for public teaching and discussion". However, this incredible lack of teaching and understanding has created a tremendous void, thus causing much ignorance and the end result is an unfortunate and very widespread problem which permeates the majority of the collective Body of believers, which is a dysfunctional and lackadaisical sexual lifestyle.
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Our heavenly Abba created intimate sex (more properly called, "lovemaking") not only for the purpose of procreation and extending the human race (as many erroneously assume), but also for the divine expression of love for one's mate and the giving of the wonderful gift of pleasure. One cannot read the command to "be fruitful, multiply and replenish the Earth" (in Genesis 1:28) while overlooking the other hints, clues, and commands in relation to "making love", which are seeded all throughout the Word of Yahweh, for if we do so, then we will continue the satanic curse of having a sexual lifestyle which is extremely unsatisfactory and unfulfilling, to say the least. Abba Yahweh desires for us to enter a covenant with our mate and spouse, and to become totally and completely fulfilled and satisfied in spirit, soul (mind, will, emotions), and body, with us being strongly unified as one in the Spirit as a "threefold Cord which is not easily broken", and what He "has joined together, no person should tear apart". (Ecc. 4:12 ; Mark 10:9)
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Oftentimes, (due to the gross misinterpretation of Scripture and the influence of the evil spirits of control and manipulation) the husband tends to abuse his Yahweh-given authority as the "head" and "covering" of the wife, and ends up destroying the fabric of the marital Covenant by being overly dominant, causing the wife to distrust, become fearful, and emotionally detached from him. As she is abused, she becomes as a very vulnerable, fragile and "bruised reed". It was never meant to be this way. The man must love his wife just as Yahushua the Messiah loves the Assembly, sacrificially giving his complete self and life to her as the gift of love, being protective and nourishing, making sure that she has absolutely everything that she needs, and doing all that he can within Abba Yahweh's grace in helping her to reach the fullness of her divine potential (Eph. 5:24-33). Just the same, the wife should be as the "Rib" of the husband (in protecting his emotional heart, just as the ribcage protects the natural heart), as well as being supportive in other aspects of life as a beneficial and thorough "helpmeet" so that there is no lack thereof (Genesis 2:18, 22-24). Anything less than this brings on the Curse (negative consequences and judgement), for it is a mockery of the sacred Covenant, an insult of holiness and intensely invokes the wrath of our Abba.
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Another thing which oftentimes plagues the human race is the lack of acceptance of oneself, as well as one's mate. This occurs due to the lack of true love which comes directly from the Spirit of our heavenly Abba and flows through our hearts as vessels for the benefit and unification of ourselves and others as one. This kind of love is perfect, being unconditional without reservations and has "no strings attached", not being based on anything within the natural realm, including one's appearance, past history, current physical, social, nor monetary status. The Divine Answer to solving all of our problems boils down to one thing, the "Golden Rule". We should do unto others just as we would have them do likewise unto us, loving Him as well as others as our own self. (Matthew 7:12; 22:37-40) In doing this, we fulfill the Law and will not suffer needlessly from lack and thus become blessed beyond measure. This kind of love firstly comes by faith, and then we exercise it with action. As we do so, it will flows like rivers of living waters, bringing life and blessing to all whom it touches. Love your spouse as your own self, and in doing so, you both will become complete.
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Also, it is a sad thing to see that many are ashamed of their own bodies and thus, end up trying to cover up themselves in various ways, such as turning off the light in the bedroom and diving under the covers whenever it is time to go to bed and make love. This is vanity! Does this in any way, shape or form glorify Yahweh? No, it does not, for it is directly derived from and inspired by the Curse of sin and death (separation from Him). The very first example of this kind of negative behavior is seen within Genesis 3: 7-11. Whenever Adam and Eve sinned against Yahweh by eating of the "Tree of the knowledge of good and evil", their eyes were opened to the carnal nature and they realized that they were naked, thus becoming fearful and ran to hide in shame from Him. Abba Yahweh became angered and intensely rebuked them for this action. So therefore, this shame of one's nakedness is not from His holy nature, but is a direct result of hasatan's dark influence. Our bodies are the "Temple of Elohim", being beautiful, holy and precious to Him (1 Cor. 6:19,20). So allow the Holy Spirit to touch your hearts and enable you to fully and completely accept your own selves, for in so doing, you will become liberated and freed from the demonic shame of our nakedness.
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The lies of hasatan keep us bound, but the Truth makes us free. Reveal who and what you are, and do not hide your Light under a bushel or basket, but allow it to shine without reservation to your mate. You have NOTHING to be ashamed of, for you were created in the very Image and Likeness of Yahweh Elohim. There are numerous references to the direct parallels between us and Him all throughout the written Word, for as He is, so are we in this world. Also, in the distant past, the Spirit has rebuked myself and others for making fun of our own bodies (and others), for whatever we do unto ourselves and other people, we do likewise unto Him. So therefore, if you call yourself as being "ugly", then you are also in essence calling Him "ugly", too, without even realizing it. Amen?
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It is very common for many marital couples to have lingering mental and emotional "walls" and "barriers" within themselves, which are based on painful memories and emotional wounds/scars from the negative experiences of the past and these (if undealt with and remain unhealed by the Spirit) will dramatically hinder and stifle the fullness of intimacy and love being expressed and received. Love covers a multitude of sins and we should do absolutely everything that we can to be open in receiving divine healing and restoration in order that we may become whole, or else, we will end up suffering needlessly as we allow hasatan to use those negative experiences against us and each other. Emotional "walls" and boundaries" fragment and divide us, and therein, perfect unity and oneness will never become even remotely possible. These negative thought-patterns and emotions can and will block various bio-chemical responses within the body, and greatly hinder fulfillment. As we continually meditate upon Yahweh's holy Word, allowing His Spirit to heal our hearts and minds, and remaining open to correction and spiritual counseling, the Truth will make us free as our minds are renewed by "the washing of Water by the Word", and then we will become liberated to experience the fullness of all that He has in store for us, including satisfactory and intensely emotional and orgasmic, sexual pleasure.
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Likewise, there are many who use various tactics of control and manipulation within marital relationships, such as the withholding of sexual activity in order to "get back at the other" in retaliation and revenge, whenever one is angered or frustrated about certain particular matters. This should not be so, for it is sin. Our bodies are the Temple of Elohim and we are not our own. We belong to Him and each other. The body of the husband belongs to the wife, and vice versa. His Word is very clear in saying :
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(1 Corinthians 7:3-5) "The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to the husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that hasatan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control."
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Many marriages experience unfulfillment because spouses tend to want to gratify one's own sexual desires in reaching orgasm, while oftentimes neglecting the intimate needs of the other. This is completely self-centered, to say the least, and causes much harm, thus creating a void through which one's spouse may eventually seek another partner in the desire to find an enriching and fulfilling sexual experience. Never forget that! Love is a gift that is given, not something that is taken. If you sow pleasure within a loving relationship, then you will reap it from your mate. Both the husband and the wife should experience satisfaction and powerful orgasms on an often basis, and both should be loving, self-controling and patient in doing whatever it takes to obtain this awesome pleasure as one.
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There are many trillions of nerve endings and neuronic pathways all throughout the human body, and through proper, intimate stimulation, beneficial bio-chemicals become released into the bloodstream, filling the cells and tissues and thus create extremely powerful sensations of pleasure from the top of your head to the soles of your feet, which are very intense, healthy, and wholesome. In my personal perspective, the entire body is the sexual organ, not merely the genitals, and likewise, intimacy involves ALL of your senses being stimulated, including sight, hearing, smelling, etc. This is why one can use aromatherapy (with scented candles, incense, potpourri, perfumes, oils), music, various types of scenery and lighting, etc., in dramatically enhancing the sexual experience. It is also extremely stimulating to speak romantically in arousing each other, looking deeply into each other's eyes, providing ample touching (including erotic massage), etc. The art of lovemaking is not merely about sexual organs (as many assume), for it involves the overall experience with it's many diverse aspects and facets in using the collectivity of our spirits, souls(minds/wills/emotions), and bodies.There are no limits to our creativity in expressing our Yahweh-given love for each other.
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There are numerous erroneous teachings which have been circulating the Body of Messiah over the years which attempt to place satanic limitations and boundaries on holy lovemaking, even though there is absolutely no basis for these beliefs, and because of this, many marriages suffer needlessly from the lack of thorough sexual expression and experience. One of these teachings is the belief that oral sex is "unnatural" and "sinful". I will prove straight from the Word that this is heresy. There are several passages from the holy and erotic book of the "Song of Songs/Solomon" which are written in very colorful and beautifully poetic metaphors and these reveal powerful insights into the glorious wonders of oral lovemaking :
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(Song of Songs 2:3) "Like an apple tree among the trees of the woods, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down in his shade with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste."
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( " 4:16) "Awake, O North wind, and come, O South! Blow upon my garden, that it's spices may flow out! Let my beloved come into his garden and eat it's pleasant fruits."
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"His fruit" is a veiled manner of allusion and reference to his genitals and the sweetness of his fluids, and her "garden" is none other than her body and the vagina, as is also spoken of within 4:12, as being the organ through which there is a hidden "spring" and "fountain". She desires for him to releases her "spices" (the secretion of vaginal juices in orgasm) so that they may flow out. Just as in 4:16, there is powerful stimulation in blowing and "eating" of a woman's vagina and this triggers mindblowing orgasms. For anyone who is not yet aware, always remember that personal hygiene is extremely important. Clean yourselves very thoroughly before lovemaking in order to have a fully, enriching experience.
There is also another passage which makes a direct hint to using his hands in passionately fondling the body and breasts of his lady :
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( " 7: 7) "This stature of yours is like a palm tree, and your breasts like clusters. I said, 'I will go up to the palm tree, I will take hold of it's branches.' Let now your breasts be like clusters of the vine..."
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I will close with this :
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Our bodies are fearfully and wonderfully made, just as it says in Psalms 139:13,14, and are the Temple of the Spirit of our heavenly Abba. He created us in His Image and greatly desires for us to love our mate and spouse as our own self, and we are to totally and completely give ourselves to our significant Other sacrificially in holy Covenant as being two parts of the one and same Whole. If we are to become truly liberated and freed to experience the fullness of intimate love in both the giving and receiving, then we must let go of mental and emotional boundaries, becoming open to the perfect Love of Yahweh to flow through us as His offspring and vessels of honor. This will not only lead to wholeness and completion of ourselves and each other, but also open doors to thorough, awe-inspiring, and breathtaking intimate, sexual lovemaking as one.
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Do not hinder each other, but be openminded and openhearted, receptive, romantic, creative, and spontaneous as an intensely passionate lover of your mate. Be gentle as the soft wind which does not break a tender reed, and powerful as the huge waves of the sea which contain explosive energy in captivating the heart and expressing one's holy desire. Take your spouse to the greatest heights and explore the body (which is the Temple) with a great sense of excitement and adventure. Abba desires for us to reach our fullest potential, not being trapped by vain limitations. So don't hold back, but reach for the allness for which you have been predestined. Elohim is Love :).
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(Song of Songs 8: 6,7a) "Set me as a seal upon your heart, as a seal upon your arm; For love is as strong as death, jealousy as cruel as the grave; It's flames are flames of fire, a Flame of Yah. Many waters cannot quench love, nor can the floods drown it..."
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